1)
1) No
work talk.
I like my job. It’s a fun job, and I enjoy it. But what do I do when I want to avoid my life? I think about work and talk about work and then I come up with some new project to work on. This new project is about my life. So no work talk.
2) 2) No self-pity.
Let’s face it—being thirty-seven and
single sucks. I could wallow here
for an hour every day and not even begin to empty the self-pity well I carry
around in my back pocket. Cry cry
cry. Poor me poor me poor me. Whatever. Moving on. I’m
not here to wallow.
So it is apparent that you know that you are going to have a baby. And you have really touched on so many points. I've never had a baby so I can't answer any of those "what ifs" but I think it's safe to say that having a baby will be farthest from boring no matter what! Ultimately, the decision is going to be up to you. But I think this blog is great to help you decide. And just a little reminder, you have raised three dogs. One of which you've been nursing back from a major surgery. In no way am I trying to compare dogs to babies, but you've done that by yourself...
Posted by: Rita Strubbe | 07/19/2009 at 11:50 PM
yes - I'm here because of Gretchen: ( she sent me - via her blog ) - I love you guys = thinkers / 'doers' - just love it!!! :{)
Posted by: Martin. | 08/22/2009 at 02:48 AM
Regarding Ency Rule #1. I love my job. Don't feel I been working for the last 15 years! Do question myself from time to time if I miss out on other 'better' things. Recently I start putting time aside exploring other things. So far so good.
Posted by: Simon Yeung | 08/22/2009 at 03:29 AM