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04/28/2010

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I've been fantasizing about getting married and having children since I was in junior high, but over the years I've become increasingly afraid that in order to be in a relationship I have to give up being myself (and my current boyfriend is reinforcing that fear bigtime). I've been in two serious relationships, one in college and one in graduate school, dated a great many men, and have been dating the current one for five and a half months, which is probably the longest I've dated anybody since 1996. I grew up with a younger brother, and I just don't tend to worship men the way they seem to want to be worshiped. But I still kind of feel like a failure as an "old maid", especially since it's not like I sacrificed having a family in order to pursue some exciting and important career--I have a job, but it's not particularly high-paying and I don't like it that much, and my life revolves around other things (but not, apparently, around my boyfriend to the extent he's looking for).

You go sista, well put I like your style

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