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So sorry. Consider it a trial run to prep for next time.

I'm so sorry Sarah... I'm here if you need anything at all. Thinking of you and miss you very much. xo, Mo

*hugs* I'm so sorry to hear that :( Sending my thoughts and prayers your way for some good news soon - Hang in there

Hoping the blood test surprises you, but either way hoping you treat yourself gently.

I don't comment often, but I read your blog all the time. I'm so very sorry Sarah. This BLOWS. Thanking of you.


All I can think to say is... We're here for you!

so sorry. still hoping for the official test; if not, next time. hugs!!!!

Keep your head up - try, try, try again!

sending peaceful thoughts, loving energy and light your way ... and I second Jen's comment that I hope you treat yourself gently. with much love ...

Oh I'm sorry. For some reason I thought you had another week... still hoping for you!

Of everyone I know that has done IVF, nobody's first try worked. But the second one did. Hang in there! I know this is TMI, but I knew the first one didn't work for me because I started spotting 4 days before my test. I never spotted with my second one (which worked). I'm not super religious, but I do believe that God has a plan for us all. It will all work out in the end!

Ugh. Double ugh. Blech.

(In other words, that totally blows, and I'm so sorry, and call me if you want to talk.)

I'm so sorry to hear that. Boo :(

saw this quote at disneyworld:

"Even miracles take a little time." The Fairy Godmother

p.s. "Dreams do come true." (same story)

Crap. I'm here for you when you're ready to talk. xo Tracy

Hopefully you'll be pleasantly surprised tomorrow. I was. I never got a positive HPT. Someone told me later that it takes longer to get a positive HPT with IVF. ??

So my fingers are crossed that you will get a great surprise at the blood test tomorrow!

This sucks.

I hope the HPTs are wrong and you get a wonderful surprise tomorrow!

Oh Sarah, I'm so sorry... though I'm still holding out hope. Home tests are fickle.
A mantra, should you want to use it:
Everything turns out all right in the end. So if it's not all right, it's not the end.
xoxo lots of love.

I'm so sorry, Sarah. This just sucks and is so not fair.
Thinking of you.

I'm a frequent reader but rarely post. This sucks. I hated my first failed IVF -- I knew the chances were low, but I thought I'd beat the odds. The second failed one sucked just as much (not more, not less). The worst part were the "condolences" and "maybe the HPT was wrong -- it happened to..." Here's hoping you're one of the neg-HPT, pos-Beta people, but, if not, keep trying...you'll look back someday and understand why this one was not the right one for you. Next time...!!! :-)

I'm sorry. That sucks.

Ughhh.... So sorry.

Hugs and prayers!!

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